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BAD ADVICE (3) How To Have An Affair… ___________________________________________
EXODUS 20:14… Thou shalt not commit adultery! ___________________________________________
“BAD ADVICE” ON HOW TO DESTROY YOUR MARRIAGE…
1. Have an AFFAIR! ___________________________________________
2. Refuse to RUN from Tempting Situations! 3. Look at LOTS of PORN! 4. Connect with ‘Old Flames’ through Social Media… and then convince yourself it is OK because you aren’t actually doing anything wrong! 5. Refuse to talk to your spouse about issues that make you ANGRY or FRUSTRATED… just bury them and let a huge pile build up… so you can explode irrationally on them when they totally don’t expect it! ___________________________________________
6. Have an AFFAIR! ___________________________________________
7. Make sure you spend lots of personal time with the same person of the opposite sex that you’re NOT MARRIED TO… and when confronted on it say something like… “It’s Just Business!” 8. Try and make ‘INNOCENT’ remarks to an attractive person of the opposite sex as much as you can…(Like…) “I wish I had met you before I had gotten married!” 9. Put an AD for yourself on an internet dating site… even though you’re married… just to see what type of interest you could create! 10. Always COMPARE YOUR SPOUSE with other people OFTEN… to convince yourself that you didn’t get God’s Best when you agreed to marry him/her! ___________________________________________
11. Have an AFFAIR! ___________________________________________
12. Take your cues about sexual morality from Hollywood and your ‘FRIENDS’ rather than GOD’S WORD! 13. Begin to believe that your spouse’s main mission on this planet should be to MEET YOUR NEEDS… and when they don’t meet them… JUSTIFY trying to get your needs met elsewhere! 14. FANTASIZE often as to what it would be like to be with another person other than your husband/wife! 15. Be willing to SELL OUT… YEARS of Marriage… the RESPECT of your Children… and your Character for a 15 seconds of satisfaction… by HAVING AN AFFAIR! ___________________________________________
Hebrews 13:4… "Marriage is to be held in honor among all, and the marriage bed is to be UNDEFILED;; for fornicators and adulterers… God Will Judge!" ___________________________________________
SIN ALWAYS STARTS SMALL… BUT ENDS UP REALLY BIG! ___________________________________________
2 SAMUEL 11:1… The following spring, the time of year when kings go to war, David sent Joab and the Israelite army to destroy the Ammonites. In the process they laid siege to the city of Rabbah. Buuuut… David stayed behind in Jerusalem. ___________________________________________
~ WRONG PLACE / RIGHT TIME ~ ___________________________________________
(2-5) Late one afternoon David got out of bed after taking a nap and went for a stroll on the roof of the palace. As he looked out over the city, he noticed a woman of unusual beauty taking a bath. He sent someone to find out who she was, and he was told, "She is Bathsheba, the daughter of Eliam and the wife of Uriah the Hittite." Then David sent for her;; and when she came to the palace, he slept with her. Then she returned home. Later, when Bathsheba discovered that she was pregnant, she sent a message to inform David. ___________________________________________
SIN ALWAYS STARTS SMALL… BUT ENDS UP REALLY BIG! ___________________________________________
James 1:13-15… And remember, no one who wants to do wrong should ever say, "God is tempting me." God is never tempted to do wrong, and he never tempts anyone else either. TEMPTATION comes from the LURE of OUR OWN EVIL DESIRES… and these EVIL DESIRES lead to EVIL ACTIONS… and EVEN ACTIONS lead to DEATH! ___________________________________________
WARNING SIGNS YOU MAY BE CLOSE TO ‘HAVING AN AFFAIR…”
1. CURIOSITY!
(James) TEMPTATION comes from the lure of our own evil desires. (2 Samuel) Late one afternoon David got out of bed after taking a nap and went for a stroll on the roof of the palace. As he looked out over the city, he noticed a woman of unusual beauty taking a bath. ___________________________________________
“I CAN HANDLE THIS!” ___________________________________________
2. ENTICEMENT! (James) Temptation comes from the lure of our own evil desires. (2 Samuel) HE sent someone to find out who she was, and he was told, "She is Bathsheba, the daughter of Eliam and the wife of Uriah the Hittite." Then DAVID sent for her… ___________________________________________
SIN ALWAYS STARTS SMALL… BUT ENDS UP REALLY BIG! ___________________________________________
3. CONCEPTION!
(James) These evil desires lead to evil actions… (2 Samuel) …and when she came to the palace, he slept with her. Then she returned home. ___________________________________________
4. BIRTH!
(James) …and evil actions lead to death. (2 Samuel) Later, when Bathsheba discovered that she was pregnant, she sent a message to inform David.
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Galatians 6:7… Don't be MISLED/DECEIVED. Remember that you can't ignore God and get away with it! You will ALWAYS… REAP what you SOW! ___________________________________________
SIN ALWAYS STARTS SMALL… BUT ENDS UP REALLY BIG! ___________________________________________
