May 2019

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The Compass May 2019 Welcome Amber Lahtinen, our new Director of Children’s Ministry! Ambers’ favorite Bible verse is Psalm 118:24: “This is the day the Lord has made. Let us rejoice and be glad in it!” She says, “It always brings a smile to my face!” And that’s what happens to you when you get to know Amber! Amber began her ministry at Cross Winds in April of 2016 when she joined our nursery staff. She shared that her call stems from her growing up years when her Dad served in the Air Force. No longer able to stay connected to her church of origin in Ohio and living the military life of frequent moves, she found herself longing for connection, community and a consistent church home. Gratefully, Amber found that home at Cross Winds. With her husband Andy, daughter Lilyana (8) and son Jude (3), her dream began. She’s combining her deep faith with her lifelong love of children and sharing God’s love with our littlest ones. I first found Amber in our nursery. At first glance, I didn’t see her. But then, I stopped; listened; and finally -- looked down. That’s when I saw her for my first time. There she was…. crouched down, looking into their eyes, quietly talking while gently and lovingly caring for our littlest ones – right where they were – just as they were – loudly crying, laughing, playing. For me, it was a sacred moment. Now, she is embarking on the expansion of her call. She’s been overwhelmed and grateful for the positive feedback she’s already received following the announcement of her new role. She is excited to get to know the kids, families and volunteers who are part of our larger children’s ministry. Working together to serve within the church and our community, glorifying God in all we do fulfills her dream of celebrating and sharing God’s love. Contact the church office to connect with Amber or on Sunday mornings to introduce yourself, share your ideas and get to know her. Just remember – stop, listen, and look down if you don’t see her! Becky Real, Cross Winds Personnel Committee

General Conference Update As most of you are aware, a special session of the United Methodist General Conference was held in February to try to find a way forward in the face of perpetual disagreements over homosexuality. This gathering of United Methodist delegates defeated a plan (One Church Plan) to allow for more regional and local autonomy in the understanding of ministry with gay and lesbian persons. And so the result was a continuation of UM official policy that homosexuality is incompatible with Christian teaching, that gay and lesbian persons cannot be ordained or serve in UM churches, and that UM churches are not allowed to host weddings for gay and lesbian persons. Last week the Judicial Council of the UM Church reviewed the constitutionality of February’s General Conference decisions. News sources have varied in their reporting of the Judicial Council’s decisions, but for the most part, the February decisions were affirmed and the restrictions on homosexuality remain in place. Some of the enforcement and punitive aspects were ruled unconstitutional. Since February I have been in conversation with many of you who are disappointed and angry with the UM official stance. And others of you have affirmed that you are on the more “traditional” side. But in all cases everyone has said we want Cross Winds to be welcoming to all people and we want all people to know and experience the love of God through Jesus Christ. Continued on page 3

“Memorial Day” Is it enough to think today Of all our brave, then put away The thought until a year has sped? Is this full honor for our dead? Is it enough to sing a song And deck a grave; and all year long Forget the brave who died that we Might keep our great land proud and free? Full service needs a great toll, That we who live give heart and soul To keep the land they died to save, And be ourselves, in turn, the brave! -Annette Wynne

Pastoral Staff Mike Dyrdal, Lead Pastor Rachel Devereaux, Associate Pastor, Director of Student Ministries Volunteer Clergy Harold Biederman, Pastor Emeritus Shirley Duncanson, Pastor Emeritus Amber Lahtinen, Director of Children’s Ministries

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National Day of Prayer, May 2, 2019

Lori Lahtinen, Director of Worship & Music Michelle Schober, Music/Worship Admin. Nancy Betterman, Accompanist Lori Goldstein, Administrator

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David Hughes, Treasurer

Mother’s Day, May 12, 2019 Armed Forces Day, May 18, 2019

Amber Lahtinen Kristi Lahtinen Cheryl Purkat Childcare

Memorial Day, May 27, 2019

Volunteer

Ascension, May 30, 2019

Office Staff:

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Audrey Bouma

Memorial Day Monday, May 27, 2019 The church office will be closed

The Compass is a monthly publication of Cross Winds United Methodist Church. Your Compass editor is: Lori Goldstein. We appreciate your articles! We reserve the right to edit for space and content. Make sure to check out our WEBSITE for information and inspiration. It is updated continually. Web site: http://www.crosswindslife.org

Cross Winds United Methodist Church 15051 Weaver Lake Road Maple Grove, MN 55311 Phone: 763-494-9463

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You should know that although it seems like there is a finality to the decisions, there are now several conversations and movements underway to figure out how we will stay together or not stay together as local churches, Annual Conferences, and regions of the world. It may be that the United Methodist Church comes apart in the next few years, or it may be that it emerges in a new form with more local understanding of what it means to be in ministry in local mission fields. As we approach our own Minnesota Annual Conference (June 18-20) our Bishop Bruce Ough is working to coalesce various movements into a plan for consideration on how Minnesota can agree to stay together as an Annual Conference. And others around the world are working to figure out how a new organization of the UM Church might emerge and allow us to have some remaining connection and common ministry together. So much more is coming in the months ahead. Our Annual Conference is expecting to hold information sessions around the state in late May and early June. Our Board here at Cross Winds is extending an invitation to be a host site. I have no other information at this time – things are still unfolding. But we’ll try to keep giving timely updates. Prayer for the UM Church and all its leaders and members. And hold in prayer all those who feel unwelcome. Pastor Mike

WORSHIP NEWS Summer Worship Schedule begins May 26 Our summer worship schedule begins on Sunday, May 26, with one Sunday worship service at 9:30 AM. This schedule is in effect through the second Sunday of September.

May Worship This May we again will be looking at some favorite portions of the Bible that have spoken deeply to our hearts. And worship on May 19 will do the same with favorite songs and hymns. Here’s the lineup for this month: Sunday, May 5 “When You Are Crowded Out” Pastor Mike shares a message based on some work of Bruce Thielemann - a Presbyterian pastor and scholar – who was a mentor of sorts during his seminary training. When you feel disconnected and lonely, the story of Zacchaeus offers insight into finding our way by connecting to Christ. Luke 19: 1-9 Sunday, May 12 – “The Shepherd’s Voice” – On this Mother’s Day, Pastor Mike explores the deep love of Christ for each of us as we examine one of Jesus’ favorite descriptions of Himself as the Good Shepherd. John 10: 1-10 Sunday, May 19 – “The Songs Will Never Leave Me” Cross Winds’ Music Ministry presents a remembrance of favorite hymns with personal stories and fresh musical arrangements. Come and sing along. At 9:00 & 10:30 AM. Sunday, May 26 –“Sacrifices” In her Memorial Day weekend message, Pastor Shirley Duncanson looks at how we have been blessed by the sacrifices and love of people who have gone before us. What do their sacrifices teach us about how to live our lives as followers of Jesus? Psalm 8, John 16:19-22

Our summer worship schedule begins on this Sunday with one Sunday worship service at 9:30 AM.

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Come join us for a unique and calming experience for our annual Tea! Among the aspects of the Spiritual Disciplines we've been exploring at church, are slowing, simplicity and celebration.

The objective of a Japanese tea ceremony is relaxed communion between host and guests. The ultimate aim is the attainment of deep satisfaction through silent contemplation and the drinking of tea. An authentic Japanese tea ceremony can last many hours. Our time together will be from 2:00-4:00 on Saturday, May 11. It is based not only on the etiquette of serving tea, but on the precise performance and aesthetics of the centuries-old ritual, the beauty of the utensils, the simplicity of the surroundings, and the social aspects of experiencing the ceremony with others. All of these elements coexist in a harmonious relationship with the ceremony. The tea ceremony they perform has been taught in Japan from generation to generation. Register on line at www.crosswindslife.org

Adult Ministry 10:30 am in the Lower level Adult room

The Songs Will Never Leave Me Sunday May 19 9:00 and 10:30 am Plan to worship with our Music Ministry singing favorite hymns that touch our lives.

Drop in Bible Study 9:00 am Sunday mornings Everyone is welcome!

Shalom 9:15 am Cross Winds UMC Maple Grove, MN 55311 Crosswindslife.org

Centering Prayer to support healing, wholeness and God’s presence are welcome!

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Summer Worship Events

Sunday, June 2: It is Graduation Sunday! Inform the church office of any graduations, high school or college so we can celebrate you! Sunday, June 30: Worship with us at Town Green in downtown Maple Grove, bring a friend or another family to this casual outdoor worship service. Sunday, July 14: The Roe Family Singers will be joining us for some foot tapping blue grass worship music; we may even get to experience some authentic clogging. Sunday, August 4: The Brooklyn Big Band will be returning to lead us in worship in their swing, jazz style. Plan to stay after the service for your additional listening pleasure of some your favorite big band songs. Wind of the Spirit Band will be leading worship on July 28 and August 25. Other Sundays will be led by our talented team of musicians. We may even dust off those ukuleles for a Reggae Sunday.

Mark your calendar to be at Cross Winds for Summer Worship at 9:30am every Sunday; don’t miss these must attend events this summer! It is sure to be a “HOT” summer at Cross Winds!

2019 Confirmation Class Confirmed Sunday, April 28, 2019 On Sunday, April 28th at the 10:30 am worship service, ten of our young people were confirmed in their faith. Those being confirmed and received into church membership are: William James Bruers Autumn Paige Lundin Tanner Franklin Moen Leah Ann Muscatello Jacob Eugene Nelson Alice Norene Ottenstroer Charles Andrew Rausch Elizabeth Grace Wahl Gabrielle Faith Wahl Maura Joy Wahl

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Things you may want to know about... “Stitches of Love”

Giving Update by Don Bushen, Finance Chair

Our first quarter results have been summarized and we have a slight deficit heading into the next spring quarter. This is not as good as last year heading into the Spring but we are encouraged we will be able to get back on track with the help of all of our congregation. Your assistance and generous contributions are needed to support all of our critical missions at Cross Winds UMC. If your family would like to help Cross Winds UMC, please reach out to our Financial Secretary, Steve Weeks. Contact the church office for Steve’s information. Thank you so much for your generous support and your continued support for our ministries at Cross Winds.

Looking for a few good hands to

Feed My Starving Children

Stitches of Love sewing group will gather here at Cross Winds on Thursday, May 2nd at 1:00 pm. Anyone is welcome who likes machine sewing, cutting out fabric, or enjoys fellowship to learn about ongoing sewing mission projects. Join us in the fellowship hall at 1:00 pm. Any questions can be directed to Jane Ducklow. Contact the church office for her number. We, with gratitude, accept donations of cottons, blends, flannels, knits and fleece. Fabric should be unwashed and unused with no political symbolism or advertisements.

UMCOR Giving Thank you to everyone who donated to UMCOR!

Join a group on: Saturday, May 11th, 9:00 - 11:00 am Coon Rapids Location Turn hunger into hope with your two hands at Feed My Starving Children. If you are interested contact the church office for Floyd Burghard contact information. Kids over 6 years old, youth and adults are welcome.

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Together we will be sending $2381.27 to help fund the operations for UMCOR.

Student Ministry

Middle School 6-8th Grades High School 9-12th Grades

Student Ministry May Calendar May 1st – May Day May 2nd – Youth Leadership Team Meeting – 6:30 PM – The Pit Sunday, May 5th – 9:00 or 10:30 AM – Worship, Student Hangout 10-10:30 AM (celebrating Tracy!) Sunday, May 12th – Mother’s Day – 9:00 or 10:30 AM – Worship, Student Hangout 10-10:30 AM Sunday, May 19th – 9:00 or 10:30 AM – Worship, Student Hangout 10-10:30 AM (last hangout of the year) EARLY BIRD PRICING DEADLINE for Golf Scramble!

Sunday Morning Student Hangout – Sundays 10:00-10:30 AM

Sunday, May 26th – 9:30 AM – Worship

Students are encouraged to worship on Sunday mornings at either the 9 or 10:30 AM service, and hangout in their spaces downstairs from 10-10:30 AM (treats served, couches available and SGL check ins happening!) Last hangout for 2018/19 school year will be Sunday, May 19th!

May 27th – Happy Memorial Day

Thursday, May 2nd – 6:30-8 PM ANY adult is welcome to come and be a part of the Youth Leadership Team! Meetings are the 1st Thursday of every month for 1.5 hours and meet at CW. Planning for upcoming events and the overall ministry happening with our students takes place. Would LOVE to have YOU in YOUth!

Rachel Devereaux

Associate Pastor, Director of Youth Ministries Cross Winds UMC 15051 Weaver Lake Rd. Maple Grove, MN 55311 763.494.9463 - church

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www.crosswindsumc.org https://www.facebook.com/cwu mcstudents @cwumcmiddle @cwumchigh #cwumcyouth

Children’s Ministry

We’reallaboutourCrossWinds Kids! st th

Family Fun Night May 10th @ 6:00 pm

Pre School – Kindergarten – 1 –5 Grade

May 2019 Good bye Miss Tracy Dear kids, families and congregation… I am so humbled over these past few weeks by all of you. I’ve received so many affirmations, hugs, shared tears, and special talks. My church family means more to me now than ever, and I LOVE each of you so deeply. Thank you for honoring me with a staff position all these years, and know that I will be blessed to continue worshipping with you, greeting you on Sunday mornings, and sharing all I can going forward. With SO much gratitude and love, Ms. Tracy

Sign up for the Summer Day Camp NOW!

Summer Day Camp is at Cross Winds, June 10-14 Cross WindsLife.org

Bring a friend or two, a dish to share, and be sure your PJs are what you wear. A blanket, pillow, or camping chair, are other things to grab from your lair!

Kids Bells ALL KIDS PERFORM MAY 19th BOTH SERVICES! Plan to have kids at church 8:45-11:30 am. Snacks and fun will be provided!

Special Cross Winds pricing applies! Register at www.crosswindslife.org Key word “summer camp”

Sunday School Info Last Day is May 19th

Amber Lahtinen, Director of Children’s Ministries Facebook: Crosswindsumckids Twitter: CWUMCkids Instagram: CWUMCkids

We will perform in worship, recognize our awesome small group leaders, have a party!!! Page 8

Cross Winds

United Methodist Church Sunday

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Wed 1 9:00 am Sr. Facilities 5:45 pm Communion Rehearsal 6:15 pm Women’s Ensemble 6:45 pm Musical 7:45 pm Adult Choir 8:15 pm Men’s Ensemble

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2 3 9:30 am Sr. Exercise class 1:00 pm Stitches of Love 6:00 pm Wind of the Spirit vocal Rehearsal 6:30 pm Youth Leadership Team 7:00 pm Wind of the Spirit band

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11 9:00 am Feed My Starving Children Coon Rapids location

6 9:30 am Caring 9:00 am Kids worship Ministries Adult Ministry Class 6:30 pm Personnel 9:15 am Shalom 10-10:30 am Student Team Life 10:30 am Kids Sunday School Adult Ministry Class

7 Bulletin Deadline 7:00 am BNI 9:00 am Staff Meeting 7:00 pm Boy Scouts

8 900 am Sr. Facilities 6:15 pm Women’s Ensemble 6:45 pm Musical 7:00 pm Hospitality Team 7:45 pm Adult Choir 8:15 pm Men’s Ensemble

9 9:30 am Sr. Exercise class 6:00 pm WOS vocal rehearsal 7:00 pm Musical Combo

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12 Mother’s Day 9:00 & 10:30 am Worship Services 9:00 am Kids worship Adult Ministry Class 9:15 am Shalom 10-10:30 am Student Life 10:30 am Kids Sunday School Adult Ministry Class

13 9:30 am Caring Ministries 6:00 pm Welcome Team 6:30 pm Finance Team

14 Bulletin Deadline

15 9:00 am Sr. Facilities

16 9:30 am Sr. Exercise class 6:00 pm Wind of the Spirit Rehearsal

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19 Musical, The Songs Will Never Leave Me

20 9:30 am Caring Ministries 6:30 pm Worship Team

21 Bulletin Deadline 7:00 am BNI

23 9:30 am Sr. Exercise class

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5 9:00 & 10:30 am Worship Services

9:00 & 10:30 am Worship Services Last day of Sunday School 9:00 am Kids worship Adult Ministry Class 9:15 am Shalom 10-10:30 am Student Life 10:30 am Kids Sunday School Adult Ministry Class 26 9:30 am Summer Worship Service

June Compass Deadline

6:45 pm Musical run through with Combo

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Tea set up 6:00 pm Family Fun Night

10:00 am Al-Anon group 12:00 pm Set up for Miss Chain Tea 2:00 pm Miss Chain of the Lakes kids Tea party

10:00 am Al-Anon group 2:00 pm Spring Tea

18 9:00 am-12:00 pm Full Musical run through 10:00 am Al-Anon group

7:00 am BNI 9:00 am Staff 7:00 pm Boy Scouts

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9:00 am Sr. Facilities 6:00 pm Choir Picnic

9:00 am Staff Meeting 7:00 pm Boy Scouts

27 Memorial Day

28 Bulletin Deadline 7:00 am BNI

The church office will be closed

9:00 am Staff Meeting

29 9:00 am Sr. Facilities

9:30 am Sr. Exercise class

25 8:00 am Wind of the Spirit vocal rehearsal 9:00 am Wind of the Spirit band rehearsal 10:00 am Al-Anon group

Cross Winds United Methodist Church 15051 Weaver Lake Road Maple Grove, MN 55311 Return Service Requested Phone: 763-494-9463 Web site: http://www.crosswindslife.org Prayer Request: http://www.crosswindsumc.org/ prayer-requests/

May Worship at Cross Winds...

Sunday, May 12 Mother’s Day

Summer Worship begins May 26th Worship 9:30 am

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Welcome Amber Lahtinen!

Sunday’s: May 5,12 & 19

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General Conference Update

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Worship News, May Worship

Worship 9:00 & 10:30 am

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Spring Tea

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The Songs Will Never Leave Me

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Adult Ministry

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Summer Worship Events

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2019 Confirmation Class

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Things you may want to know about…

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Student Ministry

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Children’s Ministry

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May Calendar