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FASHION Winter Trends 6 CALLING ALL MOMS Taming the Slime Mess 10 FITNESS Mix It Up with MX4 14 Pickleball! You Play What Now? 18 Social Security Advocates 22 MIX ARTIST SPOTLIGHT Backstreet Boys 23 INSPIRATIONAL Are You a Godly Leader? 26 “Under the Big Top:” Women of United Way 28 Smith Automotive: 35 What Should I Do About That Light? RECIPES German Chocolate Pie 37 The Legal Index 39 42 BUSINESS PROFILE Bliss Day Spa & Salon MONEY TIPS Taking Control of Your Finances 45 COVER STORY She Rules! 48 The Women Who Shaped Lee University 54 Colorful Campaign Fights Cancer 62 66 ASK THE DOCTOR Heart Attack Warnings Pam’s Corner: 69 What I Enjoy Most About What I Do CBC Teachers Federal Credit 74 Union Gives Thanks 76 ALL IN THE FAMILY The Goinses TRAVEL Dollywood’s DreamMore Resort 80 HEALTH & WELLNESS Raising “Bossy” Girls 84 Cleveland Boat Center: There’s a Boat for That! 86 Winter Happenings: Fun Activities for Everyone 88

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Happy New Year! Another holiday season has ended, and so we ring in the new year. Whether you made a New Year’s Resolution or not, we can all still use this moment to reflect on last year and then plan for 2019 to be even better! Hope, Dream, Act. You were put on this earth to do something good – big or small. Now go do it! In this issue of Southeast Tennessee Woman, read powerful stories of encouragement and wisdom from Rhonda Weeks, Pam Stone, Judge Donaghy, and Chancellor Bryant. Get advice on raising strong-willed girls from Erin Cole, or containing the slime mess in your house from Allison Ready. Findd out where you can relax and unwind – either in town at Bliss Luxury Day Spa & Salon, or just up the road at Dolly Parton’s new DreamMore Resort.

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See what everyone is saying about a fun, new, contagious game called “Pickleball” that is sweeping southeast Tennessee. Lastly, hear how love and joy only multiply with a bigger family.

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—Arleah Waycaster Publications Editor Jeremiah 29:11

Correction: In the Southeast Tennessee Woman Vol. 16, Winter 2018 issue, the “Made in Cleveland, TN” list taken from the State of City Address/2017 by Cleveland Mayor Tom Rowland listed that the Bayer Cleveland plant produces Dr. Scholl’s foot products, Aspirin and Claritin. The Bayer Cleveland plant produces Coppertone, Claritin, MiraLAX, Afrin and several footcare products.

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Winter Wear! rom slouchy boots and animal prints to layered clothes and boxy purses, there are many fashion trends to get excited about for the 2019 year! This winter, padded jackets don’t only keep you warm – they keep you stylish. Animal prints on jackets, pants, tops, and even ballet shoes are a hot trend to watch for this year. Now there’s no reason at all to buy real fur – Faux fur isn’t just inexpensive and cruelty-free – it’s totally in this season!

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The layered look is popular this winter. Pair a single-colored padded sleeveless jacket over a plaid shirt, or any color lightweight jacket over a collared shirt or thin sweater. Add on a boxy or saddle-style purse to complete the outfit.

Boots will always be a staple for winter footwear. (Thank goodness!) This year, add to your collection of calf-high and ankle boots with the hottest trend – slouchy boots. Despite the name, they can actually pull together a sleek and professional outfit very well.

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Who said winter wear had to be drab? Stand out among the grays and blacks of this season with a colorful, bold print scarf!

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CALLING ALL MOMS

Have You Been SLIMED Yet?

By Allison Ready

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hen I was young, one of my favorite movies was the original Ghostbusters; actually,

Ghostbusters is still one of my favorite movies.

The scene that still makes me laugh is when Peter

Venkman, played by Bill Murray, gets slimed by the green ghost. Would I want to be Venkman and get slimed? No.

But today, slime is all the rage.



If you google “slime recipes” you will find pages and

pages of recipes. Kids and parents are making slime in their pseudo laboratories, also known as kitchens.

Even though slime is a popular activity for kids, I’ve

gotten mixed reviews from parents.

Local mother Jeani Gregory-Featherngill said she

hasn’t made slime at home but her kids have brought it

home from birthday parties and she hates it. “I. HATE. SLIME,” said Gregory-Featherngill. Her oldest daughter, Kennin Featherngill said, “I like slime, but it takes too long to get the consistency right.” Another Cleveland mom, Julie Ruff LaMagna, said: “I have made it twice and it makes a mess.” Children at Taylor Elementary School are excited about slime. If students reach their Accelerated Reader school goal of 20,000 points, they get to slime new principal Erica Shamblin and three teachers. Accelerated Reader is when students read books, take a test on the book and get points for the book. The more points students earn, the more rewards for the student. Most of the reward days are mainly dress-up days. Examples include team spirit day, book character day, camo day or superhero day. But at Taylor Elementary, it’s all about the slime! Students will get to vote on the three teachers to cover in goo. First-grade teacher April Koger said, “I know our great

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students from Taylor Elementary School will reach our AR goal this year. Mrs. Shamblin and three lucky teachers need to get ready to be slimed!”

teaching other relatives, such as her Pap-Pap, how to

Moms and local children have different opinions on slime.

trend! I feel like it is such a waste of materials because if

Moms Club of Cleveland member Sarah Maxwell said, “My two children haven’t been introduced to slime, yet.”



Mom Julianne Hale said her daughter Tatum has a “full-fledged slime lab in our basement, complete with a stainless steel sink and a counter space all to herself. She’s made some pretty impressive concoctions, choosing to specialize in food scents. Her creations include cotton candy, confetti cake and piña colada slime, complete with complementary colors and textures. She’s got a legitimate Etsy store but it hasn’t had much traffic. The homemade slime market is saturated.”

peers to interact with her since they all want to play with

make it.”

Lori Hammonds said, “Slime is my least favorite

you do not get it just right you cannot play with it.”

Cleveland mom Becca Brnik said, “My daughter Annabel is the chemist in the family making slime – often

Brnik said her daughter has used slime as a social tool

at school by hosting a slime club during recess.

“For her, she loves the sensory input and it allows

it,” said Brnik. “It’s been a helpful social tool.”

Whether you have yet to be introduced to slime, or

your at-home laboratory is covered in it, slime isn’t “gooing” away any time soon.

Allison Ready is the Mommy Playdate Coordinator in the MOMS Club. She served as President and Membership Vice President in the past. She is married with two children: a boy and a girl who keep her very busy.

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Need inspiration? Prefer a group atmosphere? How about better results? I think that covers most of us… If you are looking to mix up your workouts and are tired of either going through the motions on your own or just need a change of pace, look no further than MX4. This new small group training program, now offered at the Cleveland Family YMCA, provides a fresh approach to exercise that delivers results. “MX4 is a draw for fitness enthusiasts of all kinds,” said Lee McChesney, district vice president of the YMCA of Metropolitan of Chattanooga. “Whether they are looking to shed pounds, improve performance, or just become healthier overall, this program can help them achieve it.”

About the Workouts MX4 combines best-in-class training equipment (such as TRX bands, soft weighted balls, rowers, kettlebells, battle ropes, body weight training, and more) with exciting workouts to improve one’s cardiovascular fitness, power, strength and endurance.

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What’s even better is the experience of a small group, with the added benefit of a personal training “feel.” Workouts are diverse with more than 150 different combinations over the course of a year to keep sessions fresh and engaging for participants. There’s no guesswork with MX4. The workouts are delivered by certified MX4 trainers. Members can count on plenty of one-on-one time with a trainer who will help tailor the program and exercises to their ability levels and goals.

Who is MX4 appropriate for? The MX4 program is appropriate for all fitness levels because members get one-on-one coaching. Moves and exercises can be tailored based on individual level. The program is available to both YMCA members and non-members. For more information on prices and class availability, contact the Cleveland Family YMCA at 423-476-5573.

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PICKLEBALL!

Why This Competitive Game with a Quirky Name Has Been Hailed as the ‘Fastest Growing Sport’ By Arleah Waycaster

Its enthusiastic players cannot get enough of it.



It’s low impact, yet also competitive.



It’s for men and women of all different ages.

And, it’s for these reasons and more that pickleball is being called one of the fastest growing sports in the country.

“I like it because it’s a good exercise, a good easy game, and I get enjoyment from seeing people learn how to play and having fellowship with one another,” said Billy Cabrera, an organizer of local pickleball games in Cleveland, Tenn.

“It keeps me young!” he added.

Similar to tennis, the game can be played with singles or doubles, and men and women can play on the same team.

up a racquetball since starting pickleball. What I like about pickleball, is that it is for a different range of people and it’s competitive – so it’s great for the whole family. It’s not just a young person’s game or an older person’s game.” Chuck and Linda Condo, of Cleveland, agree that pickleball is an addictively fun game. “It’s an easy way to work out and have fun,” said Chuck. “When we travel, we find places to play pickleball wherever we go.” Linda said what she enjoys most about pickleball is the social aspect. Dean Michaelis said he played pickleball when he lived in Michigan and he sought out local teams after moving to Cleveland. Local resident Sharon Gallaher said she also enjoys the camaraderie of pickleball.

Tracy Watson, a resident of Cleveland, said she has been playing pickleball for one-and-a-half-years.

“I needed a physical outlet and this game is easy on my knees. It keeps my mind and body healthy,” said Gallaher.

“It is contagiously fun,” said Watson, who is a former tennis and racquetball player. “I haven’t picked

The Cleveland YMCA currently holds two tournaments each year for pickleball: One in the fall and one in the spring.

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Bekah Devine, sports coordinator for the YMCA, said that pickleball “is definitely a growing sport everywhere.” “And it’s still growing! There’s a big turnout here every week,” said Devine. “It gives folks who may have formerly been athletes or want to be athletic an opportunity to have an activity that’s fun, competitive, and offers fellowship.”

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Giving Help and Hope to Those in Need Jessica Carrasquillo

When she had the idea to open a Social Security Disability Advocates office, Jessica said she had no money, no office and no clients. “But, I had an idea and an inclination to want to help people. I had this skill and I wanted to put it to good use.” Through the Cleveland/Bradley Business Incubator (and her refusal to take “no” for an answer), Jessica opened her business with a $5,000 credit card. In six months, she said her office broke even and she had enough clients to hire additional employees. “I’m still in awe to this day how it all worked out. God’s Hand was in everything I’ve done,” said Jessica.

n a paper resume, Jessica Carrasquillo could be described in many ways: She is a tenacious entrepreneur, a knowledgeable disability representative, and even a kickboxing trainer. But, in person, Jessica is probably best described as a warm, compassionate woman who strives to help people in need. “Helping people is at the heart of what I do,” explained Jessica, during a recent on air interview with Steve Hartline at WCLE Mix 104.1. Jessica manages and serves as a consultant with the local Social Security Advocates firm in Cleveland, TN, which is a division of the Logan-Thompson Law Firm. The firm helps disabled people obtain their Social Security benefits. “If you’ve already applied, or are thinking about applying, we take the hassle out of filing applications, working with your doctor, and what to do if you’ve been denied,” she said. “Every client is an individual. You are not just a number in the filing cabinet. You’re a real person with real issues.” Jessica has more than 20 years of experience working with disability claims, and the firm has helped thousands of people with a very high success rate. “I moved to Cleveland in 1997, and this whole area has been so welcoming – not only to me, but to the services that are being provided,” she said.

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Today, Jessica manages and consults with Social Security Advocates at 30 2nd Street in Cleveland, and she has branched out professionally as well. She also sells real estate as an agent with Keller Williams, consults with women starting up businesses, serves on the Cleveland Chamber Small Business Committee, and teaches kick boxing at a local gym. “When I saw some of my clients losing their houses, I got my real estate license. It’s another way of helping people so they don’t feel ashamed of losing their home that they have to sell to pay for medical care,” she said. “As a woman entrepreneur, you sometimes have these fears and lies that go through your head that I can’t do this. I’m raising a family, and how can I handle both? I had all those fears. I was raising children and going through family issues, including a divorce, when I started my business at the Business Incubator,” said Jessica. “Women have a tenacity put in us. Especially with raising a family, we have to be all things to everyone at times. I believe that even when I’m at my lowest, if I go out and help someone else, then my problems don’t seem as big.” To view the full interview, visit www.mymix1041.com. For more information about Social Security Advocates, visit www.socialsecurityadvocates.com, or call 423-473-6714.

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BACKSTREET BOYS RELEASE BRAND NEW SINGLE ‘DON’T GO BREAKING MY HEART’ n the heels of their 25th anniversary, the Backstreet Boys have signed with RCA Records who released their electric new single “Don’t Go Breaking My Heart”, along with its official music video directed by long time BSB collaborators Rich + Tone. “The minute we heard this song we knew it was special,” says Kevin Richardson. “I geeked out over the piano and synths. When that groove drops on the second verse, COME ON. Great verse, hook and melodies. Just makes you wanna listen over the over again.” Recorded immediately after the first leg of

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It’s hard not to think the group’s latest activities didn’t shape this track. Whether it’s the creative relationship with Florida Georgia Line that earned BSB their first #1 Country radio single; working with a variety of new and young producers; there’s an undeniable energy and creativity surrounding the Backstreet Boys and “Don’t Go Breaking My Heart” is an extraordinary new track from a group who continues to impress 25 years into their storied career. “Don’t Go Breaking My Heart” – now available on all digital formats – was written by Stephen Wrabel (Ellie Goulding) and produced by Stuart Crichton (Kesha) and Jamie Hartman (James Bay).

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On the heels of their 25th anniversary, the Backstreet Boys have signed with RCA Records who released their electri c new single “Don’t Go Breaking My Heart”, along with its official music video directe d by long time BSB collaborators Rich + Tone. “The minute we heard this song we knew it was special,” says Kevin Richar dson. “I geeked out over the piano and synths . When that groove drops on the second verse, COME ON. Great verse, hook and melod ie

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Are You a Godly Leader? By Rhonda Weeks

his month we are shining the light on women who have left a legacy or they are making some kind of difference in our world. Back in the Old Testament (Judges 4 & 5) we find an incredible powerhouse gal named Deborah. Deborah wasn’t just a woman—wasn’t just a prophet—wasn’t just a leader in her community and not even just a judge in the courtroom. Deborah was strong in her faith and God used her in a mighty way. Deborah was wise and discerning and she was also compassionate. Probably the best thing I could write about her is that she had a wonder-FULL relationship with the Lord of Glory. I also tend to believe that Deborah had a great grip on the fact that it’s far more important to Him who we are as a person versus just what we do. God, our Father, can accomplish great things through people—and yes, through women who are willing to be led by Him. Deborah paves the way for us to be humble leaders. Servant leaders. Wise leaders. Generous leaders. Caring leaders. Willing to stand for what’s right kind of leaders. Point people to truth leaders who are willing to risk it all for the sake of King Jesus. Deborah wasn’t afraid to push where people needed a little shove. She wasn’t afraid to expose what needed to be done—both in the light and done right. Godly leaders aren’t concerned about making a profit—but rather, making a difference. Godly leaders don’t just look to be successful in the eyes of man, but they desire to live in sync with the presence and power of Christ. Godly leaders may find themselves in the forefront but their hearts are more content taking a back seat where He alone may be on the receiving end of their attention and affection. Full of God leaders may have learned [and sometimes the hard way] that the applause of man pales in comparison to the nod of God. The Spirit of God may lead you into some unfamiliar territory, but He will be faithful to keep your feet on level ground. He will fight your battles. He will settle the score. God’s notorious for making all wrongs right. He is your Judge—the defender of your soul and the keeper of your

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very life. You can lead with confidence. You can serve knowing our Savior goes before you, behind you, and has hemmed you in on both sides. Never will He leave you or forsake you. His promises are always true, but for those women who are willing to lay their lives on the line in full surrender, I tend to think His promises become the ground on which we serve and stand. Dear woman, you are stronger than you think. You are capable of doing ALL THINGS through Christ who gives you strength—whether that’s running a business or running a shuttle bus between the grocery store, school, and home. Whether you’re conducting a board meeting with countless executives or whether you’re stuck at the sink washing umpteen sippy cups for all your littles. You are a leader and YOU are making a huge difference. At your workplace, in your home—and especially in the lives of those you love and serve. God may call you to make some tough decisions. Be courageous. You are not alone—God will be faithful to bring some strong warrior women to stand with you, circle up around you, fight for you, and walk with you along the way. Strong women know they can’t do this alone. It’s not a sign of weakness to need God’s help; it’s a sign of tremendous strength to know that apart from Christ, we can do nothing. It’s also true of them—our women leader friends. Girls, we need each other. As daughters of the Most High God, let’s get comfortable in encouraging (and challenging) our women leader friends. Let’s delight in watching them flourish and grow where He has planted them. We refuse to be intimidated by the strong, jealous of the beautiful, envious of the victorious, or insecure over the prospering. We are women. Loved by God and free to love and serve each other in the powerful name of Jesus Christ. Cheers to Deborah and all the godly women who have loved us and served us—who have led us by their example and who have lived out their faith in such strong and beautiful ways. Rhonda is a wife, mom of two and grandmother of six. She is employed by Cleveland City Schools. She and husband Mike attend First Baptist Church of Cleveland. Rhonda’s passion is cheering others on through her Facebook devotional group “New Every Morning.”

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Will Benefit Two Local Nonprofits Contributed by Women United of the United Way lose your eyes for a second. Imagine the delicious aroma of cotton candy and the smell of popcorn, the sparkle of glitter, the whimsy of balloons, and the roar of lions and the trumpeting of elephants. The circus is coming to Cleveland! While I may be embellishing about lions and elephants, I’m ‘over the top’ excited to tell you that I’m not embellishing when I say that there is the potential to raise over $150,000 that night,” said Ashlan Morelock, director of donor engagement for the United Way of the Ocoee Region. Last year’s fundraiser, “An Evening Along the River’s Edge,” raised more than $130,000 for local nonprofit organizations: Habitat for Humanity, Junior Achievement and On Point. (continued on pg 31)

MONKEY BUSINESS – From left, Ashlan Morelock of Women United, Corrine Freeman of The Caring Place and Dustin Tommey of City Fields help “Lincoln” the monkey hand out invitations for the Women United’s fundraiser event “An Evening Under the Big Top.”

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The Caring Place is a nonprofit, ecumenical, Christian organization that envisions a community where everyone has access to the resources they need to thrive. “We offer food, clothing, spiritual, and social work support for individuals and families in need,” said Corinne Freeman, Executive Director of The Caring Place.

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This year, “An Evening Under the Big Top” will benefit two nonprofits: The Caring Place and City Fields. “One donor has announced to match up to $50,000 for the Caring Place and another anonymous donor will match up to $25,000 for City Fields. So everyone who raises a paddle that night at the auction will have their pledge matched up to those amounts,” said Morelock.

“By meeting needs with love, we develop relationships with our neighbors struggling to

City Fields is a nonprofit community development organization that focuses on revitalizing overlooked neighborhoods in Cleveland, Tenn. “We do this by cultivation change in these five ‘fields:’ 1.) Physical Revitalization, 2.) Social Revitalization, 3.) Neighborhood Safety, 4.) Economic Development, and 5.) Leadership Development,” said Dustin Tommey, executive director of City Fields. “We have been working in the Blythe Oldfield neighborhood of Southeast Cleveland for almost five years and we are seeing true transformation in the lives of people and the built-environment around us,” he said.

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survive and provide opportunities to develop sustainable pathways to become thriving members of our community,” said Freeman.

Women United is a group within the United Way that started five years ago. The group services the community by promoting the needs of women and children.

The event will be held April 5, 2019, at the Museum Center at 5ive Points in Cleveland. The fundraising event will feature a cocktail hour and a plated dinner, followed by the “Auction of Promises.”

For ticket information, contact Ashlan Morelock at [email protected], or call 423-7165725.

“During the auction, our CEO Matt Ryerson will talk about the nonprofits, and then people can donate different amounts. From $100 to $10,000: Everyone has an opportunity to donate at their specific level of giving,” said Morelock. “This night will be a spectacular spectacle, and I invite you to join us!” Morelock said. Below, Bill Martin of First Tennessee Bank is caught monkeying” around on the job.

Above, Julian Sullivan of the Bank of Cleveland goes “bananas” with excitement about this year’s Women United fundraiser.

More fun than a barrel of monkeys? That’s what “Lincoln” promises Lee Stewart and Carol Killen of Southern Heritage Bank when he hand-delivers their invitation to “An Evening Under the Big Top.”

“Lincoln” the monkey had a “swinging” good time with the entire group at Insurance Incorporated.

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“Research tells us that women make most philanthropic decisions in the household, but locally, our women are more than that. They are entrepreneurs, civic leaders, manufacturing CEO’s -- they are the movers and shakers in our community. So when we gave them an outlet to collectively address community issues, as expected, they set the bar to new heights. The women leadership in our community is extraordinary and teaches us the power of uniting as one.” – Matt Ryerson, United Way

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What Should I Do About That Light? By Jonathan Smith and Kelly Nott

epending on your personality, seeing one of these lights pop up while driving can trigger a couple of different responses. It can certainly cause some worry, or, on the other hand, the temptation to just ignore it can also creep up. The good news is you can avoid either reaction just by knowing what to do next. Here are your options: If you’re anywhere near your normal repair shop, stop in and ask for a quick scan. At Smith Automotive, we do this for free and usually right away, as do many other shops in the area. After scanning, they should be able to give you an idea of how serious the issue is and how soon you should have it taken care of. If you aren’t nearby your normal shop, stop by an auto parts store, like Advance Auto Parts, for instance. Most of these stores will scan your car at no charge and give you the basic information called the “data trouble code”, or DTC. One important thing to remember is to tell them not to clear this information out! Later, these DTCs are helpful to the technician when fixing the actual issue.

When dealing with a repair shop, don’t be afraid to ask questions! Technicians and service advisors are both used to answering a lot of questions and explaining things in detail; they expect to, in fact. Ask questions until you feel confident that you understand what they’re telling you. At Smith Automotive, we want our customers to be clear on what we’re saying to them and why, so that they can be comfortable trusting our advice. If you’re on the search for a shop you can trust, here are some things to look for:

WARRANTY -- Technicians are people and mistakes happen, but a good shop will stand behind their work.



TECHNOLOGY -- You want them to be able to print a detailed invoice after you’ve had a repair done, and print another one in a few years if you decide to sell your car and lost your copy. They should be using up-to-date equipment and tools on your car. Another perk is having a system they can use to text you when your car is done in case you’re unable to answer your phone.



CONVENIENCE -- Do they have after-hours drop off? Can they offer you a ride to home or work if you need it? (Don’t expect this service without scheduling it ahead of time though!)



CONTINUED EDUCATION -- Are their techs certified? Do they stay up-to-date on classes and training? Feel free to ask; if they do, they’ll want to brag about it!



TRUST YOUR GUT -- The saying is true that most women have great instincts. If something feels off, it probably is. If you don’t feel comfortable, look elsewhere.

Another tip: Don’t buy parts while you’re there, even at their recommendation, before talking to the service advisor at your normal repair shop. Many times the item listed in the code is not the failed item and further diagnosis may be required. Parts stores don’t usually have certified automotive techs on staff, so this isn’t something they can do for you. Before leaving the parts store, write down the information from the scan and call your normal repair shop. They’ll be able to advise you on what to do from there. The parts store can also recommend a shop for you to call if you need one. It’s very important to have a shop you trust because some issues can wait to be resolved without damaging your vehicle and others simply can’t. A reputable shop will be able to give you good advice that will keep you and your family safe while driving.

A good shop will want to be your go-to shop for all your family vehicles for years to come and will do everything they can to earn that trust.

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Recipes

RECIPES

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by Pat Bradbury

Editor’s note: The Hashbrown Casserole and German Chocolate Pecan Pie are recipes featured in “The Best of Bradbury House,” written by cooking extraordinaire Pat Bradbury. I have had the pleasure of tasting several of Pat’s salads, main dishes, side dishes and desserts, and, let me tell you, they were all divine. You can purchase her book at www.pathwaybookstore.com.

HASHBROWN CASSEROLE • • • • • •

1 (32 oz.) frozen hash browns (shredded style), thawed 1 (8 oz.) container sour cream 1 (10 oz.) can condensed cream of chicken (or celery) soup 3 cups shredded cheddar cheese ½ cup chopped onion 1 stick plus 2 tbsps. butter, melted • 3 cups crushed potato chips Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Spray a 9x13-inch baking pan with cooking spray. In a large bowl, combine hash browns, sour cream, soup, cheese, onion, and about ⅔ of the melted butter. Spread in pan, cover with cheese and chips, and remaining butter. Cook for 30 minutes.

GERMAN CHOCOLATE PECAN PIE

• 1 cup light brown sugar, firmly packed • ½ cup light corn syrup • ½ cup dark corn syrup • ¼ cup butter, melted • 3 large eggs • 1 ½ tsp. vanilla extract • ¼ tsp. salt • 2 cups pecan halves • ¾ cup semisweet chocolate morsels • 1 ½ cups sweetened flaked coconut • 1 deep-dish pie shell Preheat oven to 350 degrees. In a large bowl, combine brown sugar and corn syrups. Add melted butter, eggs, vanilla, and salt; whisk until well combined. Stir in pecans. Sprinkle chocolate morsels evenly over bottom of deep-dish pie shell. Sprinkle coconut on top of chocolate morsels. Spoon brown sugar mixture over top of coconut. Bake for 1 hour or until middle is set.

Recipes from “The Best of Bradbury House” by Pat Bradbury. Re-printed with permission from Pathway Press. Copyright © 2013

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Arrive early and slip into a plush robe. Sip a glass of wine while relaxing in the whisper lounge, enjoy a warm soak in the oversized Japanese tub or sit quietly in the infrared sauna and let the warmth begin to melt your tension away. Call 423-472-8887 or visit www.blissanavedaspa.com

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WOMEN AND MONEY: Taking Control of Your Finances s a woman, you have financial needs that are unique to your situation in life. Perhaps you would like to buy your first home. Maybe you need to start saving for your child’s college education. Or, you might be concerned about planning for retirement. Whatever your circumstances may be, it’s important to have a clear understanding of your overall financial position. That means constructing and implementing a plan. Here are three steps in creating and implementing an effective financial plan:

STEP 1 – Developing a clear picture of your current

financial situation

The first step to creating and implementing a financial plan is to develop a clear picture of your current financial situation. If you don’t already have one, consider establishing a budget or a spending plan. Creating a budget requires you to: •

Identify your current monthly income and expenses

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Evaluate your spending habits

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Monitor your overall spending

Next, add up all of your expenses and divide into two categories: fixed and discretionary. Fixed expenses include things that are necessities, such as housing, food, transportation, and clothing. Discretionary expenses include things like entertainment, vacations, and hobbies. You’ll want to be sure to include out-ofpattern expenses (e.g., holiday gifts, car maintenance) in your budget as well. To help you stay on track with your budget: •

Get in the habit of saving--try to make budgeting a part of your daily routine

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Build occasional rewards into your budget

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Examine your budget regularly and adjust/make changes as needed

STEP 2 – Setting and prioritizing financial goals The second step to creating and implementing a financial plan is to set and prioritize financial goals. Start out by making a list of things that you would like to achieve separated into two parts: short-term financial goals and long-term financial goals. Short-term goals may include making sure that your cash reserve is adequately funded or paying off outstanding credit card debt. As for long-term goals, you can ask yourself: Would you

like to purchase a new home? Do you want to retire early? Would you like to start saving for your child’s college education? Now you’ll want to prioritize your goals. Setting priorities is important, since it may not be possible for you to pursue all of your goals at once. You will have to decide which of your financial goals are most important to you (e.g., sending your child to college) and which goals you may have to place on the back burner (e.g., the beachfront vacation home you’ve always wanted).

STEP 3 – Implementing saving and investment

strategies

After you have determined your financial goals, you’ll want to know how much it will take to fund each goal. And if you’ve already started saving towards a goal, you’ll want to know how much further you’ll need to go. Next, you can focus on implementing appropriate investment strategies. To help determine which investments are suitable for your financial goals, you should ask yourself the following questions: •

What is my time horizon?

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What is my emotional and financial tolerance for investment risk?

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What are my liquidity needs?

Once you’ve answered these questions, you’ll be able to tailor your investments to help you target specific financial goals, such as retirement, education, a large purchase (e.g., home or car), starting a business, or increasing your net worth. Working with a financial professional Although you can certainly do it alone, you may find it helpful to work with a financial professional to assist you in creating and implementing a financial plan. At Guardian Investment & Accounting, we are here to help you accomplish the following: •

Determine the state of your current affairs by reviewing income, assets, and liabilities

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Develop a plan and help you identify your financial goals

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Make recommendations about specific products/services

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Adjust your plan as needed

Let me help you take control of your finances. Garry E. Thurman, Retirement Specialist 2700 Executive Park NW Cleveland, TN 37311 423-476-2712

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She Rules! Two Judges Weigh In About Life on the Bench By Arleah Waycaster

udge Sandra Donaghy and Chancellor Jerri Bryant can tell you what being a judge is not. And it isn’t a glamorous, 9-to-5 weekday job where every decision has a black and white answer.

But for these two women, serving as a judge is a

calling upon their lives – fueled by a passion and love for administering justice. It is undoubtedly one of the most important jobs in society. During a recent interview with radio host Steve Hartline, Judge Donaghy and Chancellor Bryant talked about the unexpected paths that led them to a judgeship, their experiences as a female in a male-dominated position, and their advice for young ladies interested in a law career.

“My story about becoming a judge is a little different. I had my undergraduate degree in chemistry and had never thought about law,” said Judge Sandra Donaghy. “I went to buy a car and I couldn’t understand the contract. So, for self-preservation, I took a college business law class for fun and it was like a light went off. I decided right then and there that law was a new and exciting area. I took the LSAT, resigned from my job, and went to law school.” After graduating from law school, Donaghy took a job at a private practice for eight years. Then, her husband’s job moved them to Athens, Tenn., where she landed the job of Assistant District Attorney from 1992 to 1996. She later worked in the DA’s office in Cleveland, Tenn. “I watched judges rule on decisions in the courtroom and knew that’s where I wanted to be one day. I’ve always been a rule-follower myself, and I am very much grounded in what’s right and what’s wrong,” said Donaghy. In 2014 she ran against the incumbent for the criminal court judge seat and won.

Judge Sandra Donaghy • Presides over criminal cases for Tennessee’s 10th Judicial District • 4 years serving on the bench • Grew up in Wisconsin and moved to Cleveland, Tenn., in 1997 • Worked as Assistant District Attorney for 20 years • Has two children and six grandchildren

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“My jurisdiction is only criminal law. I handle anything from misdemeanors, all the way up to rape, child rape and even murder,” she said.



Chancellor Jerri (pronounced Jerrah) Bryant handles civil cases, which are non-criminal legal disputes including divorce and child custody cases. She was also pursuing a different major while attending college.

seen in the courtroom over the

“I have an undergraduate degree from Tennessee Wesleyan with a major in history and a minor in math. A professor there encouraged me to go into law, so I went to UTK law school,” said Bryant.

evidence and even video

After graduation, Bryant practiced law at two different law firms until 1998. During that time, she said that several people in her life, including different attorneys, fostered her desire to pursue becoming a judge one day.

“One



Pushing through the glass

ceiling isn’t the only advancement that Bryant and Donaghy have past few decades. Improvements in technology and science such as using DNA as testimony via Skype have been helpful in solving cases. development since I have come on the bench is

But, Bryant said she had naysayers, too.

“I was the first female to run for a judge’s seat in this district, and I was flat out told that I wouldn’t get elected because I was a woman. That our area wasn’t ready for a woman judge yet. I loved being able to prove that wrong,” said Bryant. Since she secured the judge’s seat 20 years ago, Bryant said she has been treated fairly by her peers and co-workers. “I don’t feel like I’m treated with disrespect or any differently from other judges on this circuit court,” said Bryant. “And, while serving as a female lawyer, I never felt treated differently.”

Judge Donaghy agrees.

“Critically thinking and making decisions are things that we all are created equally to do,” said Donaghy. “In the beginning, it was a male-dominated position but it’s something a woman can do equally as well. At times, I feel like a mother settling disputes among the lawyers and addressing the needs of the defendants in jail, so I feel that a woman is particularly suited to be in the courtroom and in decision-making authority.”

‘Alternative Dispute Resolution’ which is now required for all custody cases,” said Bryant. “Parents are encouraged to settle difference in mediation before they let a judge decide that for them. If we didn’t have ADR, I think my whole docket would grind to a halt. There just isn’t enough time.”

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their law careers, and that one cause of that is the increase of motion practice.

She explained that the “science” seen in TV shows isn’t

“In terms of the advancement of motion practice, I think that’s required. It takes time out of the docket, but it’s done to preserve everybody’s constitutional rights and to preserve the record for any review at the appellate courts,” said Donahgy.

on how the process actually works.

“The extent of the motion when deciding weighty decisions such as if someone should be put to death is a result of: ‘I want every stone turned over and looked at from every possibly angle, so that everyone can rest comfortably with the decision.’ The flip side of the coin is that we used to try two Driving Under the Influence cases in a day, and now it’s rare when a jury trial finishes one DUI in a day,” Donaghy explained.

fascinating snippets.”

The preparation needed for each case has increased as well, adding hours and days onto an already full work week.



“I try 85 percent of divorce cases without a lot of preparation because I’ve done so many and the law is pretty static. But, for corporate dissolvements, I sometimes have a box or more of material,” said Bryant. “I’m on the bench almost every day, so my prep time is done at night and on weekends.”

Donaghy said her case preparations are similar.

“Even though I’ve done hundreds of burglary cases, every case is different. My case files used to be very thin and now it’s common to see thick files because there are so many motions filed. I want to research and prepare myself to make the best decision that I can,” said Donaghy. The extra time spent in preparation is just one misconception that people may have about how cases are tried in real life in contrast to what is portrayed on TV and in movies. “People think that cases go through the system very quickly, but the reality is that an investigation may go on for days, months or years. When forensic evidence is sent off to the experts for testing, such as a seized substance, that report can take seven months,” said Donaghy.

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reality, and that jurors hearing cases have to be educated

“[In a law TV show] you see snippets of fascinating

highlights that keep you on the edge of your seat,” said Bryant. “But, if you came to court – which are open to the public – I daresay you would find a whole show’s worth of

“Everyone thinks it’s all glamorous and exciting cases,

but they forget that it’s just real life, which can sometimes be gory, sometimes be disturbing, sometimes be funny and sometimes be boring,” said Bryant.

And in real life, the mental and emotional toll of cases

doesn’t always end as abruptly as turning off the TV. “The toughest cases are termination of parental rights

or divorce cases where I’m dealing with custody,” said Bryant. “I can divide a business all day and not have to walk away thinking, ‘Is that the right question?’ When I see parents mistreat children, that keeps you up at night.”

“For me, it’s the sexual abuse cases of children – you

carry those with you,” said Donaghy. “Also, the crime victims because many times, these are just really good people who happened to be at the wrong place at the wrong time, and you know what happened to them affects them for the rest of their lives.”

Despite the challenge of their jobs, Bryant and

Donaghy love what they do, and they both plan to run for re-election when their eight-year terms are up again.

For women or young ladies who are interested in a

career in law, this is the advice they had to give:

“I do the mock trial program for college students, and

I think sometimes that they sell themselves short,” said Bryant. “I think we need to encourage them to aim very high because it is attainable.”

“You can do anything if you work hard enough at it,”

said Donaghy. “Set a goal, aim high, and dedicate yourself to that goal by making it a priority in your life.” To view the entire interview, go to www.mymix1041.com.

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2019 Women’s Council Theme Critical Conversations... Program Dates: • February 25 • May 20

• August 19 • November 18

Visit the Chamber’s community calendar, ClevelandChamber.com, throughout the year for programming details. Women’s CounCil - a quarterly program of the Cleveland/ Bradley Chamber of Commerce, provides educational and networking opportunities specifically for women; men are always welcome to attend! To register, call 423-472-6587 by noon on Thursday prior to each session. All sessions take place at the Chamber, 225 Keith St SW.

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They Were Teachers, Missionaries, Trailblazers and More.

How Prominent Women Helped to Shape Lee’s 100-Year History By Carolyn Dirksen

Bible Training School (BTS), the precursor to Lee

and in the early days of Pentecostalism, women were

University, began on January 1, 1918, two years before

given privileges for preaching and teaching that were

women were granted the right to vote. Nevertheless,

unheard of in traditional denominations.

the first teacher in that first class was a woman – Nora



Chambers.

A graduate of Holmes Bible School, she was one of

the most educated people in the fledgling denomination,

Prior to coming to BTS, Chambers had spent several

years as a highly controversial itinerant evangelist. Traveling with her husband, she was run out of town more than once, and churches where she preached were

Photos courtesy of Lee University

Traveling with her husband, Nora Chambers (back row, far right) was run out of town more than once, and churches where she preached were burned to the ground in protest of her position in the pulpit and her Pentecostal message. That fearless spirit and fierce resilience set the tone for women in leadership throughout Lee’s history.

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burned to the ground in protest of her position in the pulpit and her Pentecostal message. That fearless spirit and fierce resilience set the tone for women in leadership throughout Lee’s history. While Nora Chambers was busy in the classroom launching the new institution, Mary Jane Tomlinson, wife of the Church of God General Overseer, housed, fed, and cared for the first students. In the school’s second year, the Tomlinsons built an addition to their home to accommodate the growing number of students. During one semester, students were hit with a powerful strain of influenza, and Tomlinson served as their nurse with one student dying in her home. Although her contributions were not academic, Tomlinson is one of the pioneer women of the institution. In 1932 when BTS added a high school program, the first teacher of that division was also a woman: 20-year-old Mildred Blackwell. Blackwell had completed two years of junior college work when she started her teaching career. After leaving BTS, she married and became a missionary to India. She later completed her bachelor’s degree and taught in various schools for 16 years. Katherine Lowery, also hired in 1932, studied English and the Classics at the University of Chattanooga and was the first teacher at BTS to hold the bachelor’s degree. One of the few non-Church of God teachers at BTS, Lowery was an active member of St. Luke’s Episcopal Church. Avis Swiger, one of the most powerful women in Lee’s history, came to BTS in 1935 as a teacher (continued on pg 56)

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of Christian Evidence and Elocution, earning $40 per month. Teaching at BTS and Lee for 38 years, she became known for her influence on future missionaries through the Missions Club, which she founded and sponsored.

her with raising academic standards at Lee and moving

While at Lee, she served as a full-time faculty member, Dean of Women, and director of the correspondence program. She wrote and produced plays, traveled with student preaching teams, and produced the first Lee yearbook, the Vindagua.

she became a Christian in 1941, she enrolled in BTS to

In 1941, Mary Elizabeth Harrison came to BTS as a high school teacher and quickly became principal. She was the first member of the BTS administration to hold a master’s degree. BTS moved to Cleveland and became Lee College in 1947, and Harrison was instrumental in that transition. Louis Morgan, Director of the Lee Library, credits

the institution toward eventual accreditation.

Dora Myers began her adult life as a concert pianist,

studying and performing throughout Europe. When prepare for ministry, but she was already one of the most educated people on campus, so she was invited to join the faculty.

After teaching for nine years, she went to India as a

missionary and opened a Bible school in Karala. Having served in India for 12 years, Myers returned to Lee and taught psychology until her retirement in 1971. Myers was Lee’s first professor emeritus.

Joining the faculty of BTS in 1944 and remaining in a

full time position for 55 years, Lois Beach is the longestserving faculty member in Lee’s history. She began as a home economics teacher, but her interest in chemistry drew her back to the classroom again and again to master

Bible Training School, the precursor to Lee University, began on January 1, 1918, two years before women were granted the right to vote.

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that discipline, and when BTS moved to Cleveland and became Lee College, Beach took over the teaching of chemistry.

When the junior college transitioned to a four-year

school, Beach was charged with developing the science major curriculum. The first two graduates of her program were admitted to medical school and became physicians, starting a long tradition of medical school completion. In 1968 she became the first female department chair, and Lee’s first science building was named for her.

When that building was razed to make room for

the present Science and Math Complex, a wing retained her name. Beach received the Excellence in Teaching Award and was recognized by the denomination with the International Educator Award.

Frances Arrington came to BTS as a freshman in 1944

and found a job working in the library. After transferring to a four-year college and completing a math degree, she

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came back to teach. Once again, she served as the night librarian and eventually returned to school to earn a degree in library science. For the next 4 decades, Arrington poured her heart and soul into the development of Lee’s library, accomplishing two major feats. She put the whole library catalog online, and she spearheaded the move of the library from the Vest Building to its present location. During her tenure, the library budget expanded from $5,000 to more than $1,000,000, and the collection grew from 9,713 volumes to an almost uncountable collection of hard copy and digital resources. In addition to this impressive list of Lee women, hundreds of others have broken ground and led in remarkable ways. Women currently on the Lee faculty, administration and staff play major roles in forming the identity and ethos of the campus, and all of them shape the way women students see their own potential.

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Community Leaders Use Colors to Fight Cancer, Raise Funds By Chrissy Seals and Greg Broy, both of the ACS

A colorful campaign to benefit the American Cancer Society (ACS) has revealed the names of several community ambassadors throughout Bradley County who raised awareness and funds to support the organization’s fight to end all cancers. They each had a minimum goal of $1,000 and could raise the funds however they would like. The highest fundraiser was Cesar Escarcega with Eaton Corporation who raised $1,600. Greg and Patsy Hicks with Impressions Catering Events raised $1,535. Beck Shala with Becks Barber Shop raised $1,225. “Colors of Cancer” – which ended on Nov. 30 – provided the ambassadors with a unique platform to highlight their personal connection to a specific cancer type and color. They wore their chosen color in November to bring awareness of their efforts to raise funds for the ACS. This year’s Colors of Cancer brought awareness to Orange for Leukemia; Burgundy and Ivory for Head and Neck

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cancer; Pink for Breast cancer; Lime Green for Lymphoma; Black for Melanoma and Skin cancers; Purple for all cancers, and more. Bradley County residents Greg and Patsy Hicks are a couple who are involved in Colors of Cancer. They participate in memory of a loved one. “My father has throat cancer. He had to have his voice box removed and lived the rest of his life with a tracheostomy stoma,” said Patsy Hicks. “This cancer almost took his life, but he survived. He learned to speak using esophageal speech, and he would go with Dr. Byrd to Cleveland High School to speak to students about smoking. During my father’s life, he also battled lung cancer, stomach cancer, skin cancer and lymphoma. He was and still is my hero. His battles with cancer were difficult, but he was a survivor,” she said. Wes Eshenbrenner, owner of Water Workz Marine, participated in memory of his mother. She passed away in 2009 from lymphoma. Dr. Joshua Olmstead, owner of Olmstead Dental, joined the campaign

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in honor of his father. His father was diagnosed with a rare form of blood cancer. Dr. Olmstead chose orange to represent leukemia and other types of blood cancers.

Wes Eshenbrenner

These are just a few of the many stories that exemplify the passion these ambassadors carry to lead the fight for a world without cancer.

The other ambassadors who raised funds are: • Dr. Joshua Olmstead, Owner and Doctor of Dental Surgery, Olmstead Dental • Lauren Nix, Mixologist, The Press (restaurant in downtown Cleveland)

Lauren Nix

• Chris Cassada, Account Developer, Coca-Cola Consolidated • Mayor Kevin Brooks, Mayor of Bradley County • Wes Eshenbrenner, Owner, Water Workz Marine • Ben Smith, Teacher and Head Wrestling Coach, Bradley Central High School • Sam Elmer, resident of Cleveland, Tenn.

Mayor Kevin Brooks Community members can view ambassador bios and donate to any of their Colors of Cancer by visiting the website: http://www.relayforlife.org/ colorsofcancerbradleycountyTN. The ACS supports ground-breaking cancer research, offers free rides to cancer treatment and free lodging near hospitals, and a 24/7 helpline at 1-800-227-2345.

Chris Cassada

Its website, cancer.org, offers in-depth information on specific cancer types and ways to get involved with the organization.

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Dr. Joshua Olmstead

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We are surrounded by signs every day. Along the highway, road signs tell us where to exit and guide us to points of interest. Billboards promote local businesses and tout the latest products and services. Building signs help us get from the lobby to a particular office. Unfortunately, however, the signs of a heart attack are rarely this obvious. And when it comes to women and heart attacks, the symptoms For both men and women, the may be even less clear. most common sign of a heart attack is: Tennova Healthcare is encouraging East Tennesseans to know the early warning • Chest pain that may spread to signs of a heart attack and to call 9-1-1 right away. the shoulders or arms “Recognizing the warning signs—and getting immediate, appropriate care—is the single most important thing you can do to lessen the damage of a heart attack,” Other common signs of a said Hady Lichaa, M.D., a cardiologist with Tennova Healthcare. heart attack include: “In the movies, a heart attack always seems straightforward and dramatic,” • Discomfort between the Dr. Lichaa said. “A man gasps and clutches his chest before falling to the floor. shoulder blades In reality, many heart attacks start slowly with only mild pain or discomfort, and • Discomfort in the jaw the victim could just as easily be a woman. Heart disease ranks as the number one • Shortness of breath • Sweating health threat for both men and women in the United States.” • Nausea The most common cause of a heart attack is a ruptured cholesterol plaque (or blockage), on top of which a blood clot forms, which ultimately completely obstructs Women are more likely than blood flow to that area of heart muscle. While cholesterol blockages (also known as men to have these symptoms: coronary artery disease), develop over time, a true heart attack happens in minutes • Upper abdominal discomfort, and can cause long-term damage if not treated. That is why recognizing signs and which may be mistaken for symptoms early on is extremely important, so that the artery can be opened in a “heartburn” timely fashion to prevent complications. • Shortness of breath “Symptoms of a heart attack include discomfort or tightness in the chest that • Excessive fatigue • Unexplained heartburn or may spread to the shoulders or arms,” Dr. Lichaa said. “Pain can be mild or strong. nausea It can last for a few minutes, or it can go away and come back. Other warning signs include shortness of breath, sweating and nausea.” If you have any of these signs According to the American Heart Association, chest discomfort is the most of a heart attack, call 9-1-1 and common heart attack symptom for both men and women. However, women are get to the hospital right away. somewhat more likely than men to experience some of the other common symptoms, particularly shortness of breath, nausea or vomiting, and back or jaw pain. “For women, heart attack symptoms are often more subtle than the obvious chest pain,” Dr. Lichaa said. “As a result, some women arrive in the ER after heart damage has occurred because their symptoms are not what they typically associate with a heart attack. “If you are experiencing any heart attack symptoms, don’t ignore it or feel About Tennova Healthcare too embarrassed to go to the hospital,” One of the state’s largest health networks, Tennova Healthcare includes he said. “A false alarm investigated is 12 hospitals and more than 80 physician clinics. The combined network better than a heart attack ignored.” has approximately 1,800 licensed beds, 1,700 physicians on the For more information or a physician combined active medical staffs, and 6,800 employees, with more than referral, call 1-855-TENNOVA (83651,000 admissions and 300,000 emergency department visits each year. 6682) or visit Tennova.com.

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WHAT I ENJOYMOST MOSTABOUT ABOUT WHAT WHAT I ENJOY WHATI DOI DO B BY Y PAM PAM STONE STONE

Y PA M S TON E April 2, 2018, Perry

and no clue to God’s long-term plans.

present. The ministry has expanded from

and I celebrated 36

We moved to Cleveland, Tennessee,

a rural revival ministry with hundreds in

years of marriage. That

living in a two-bedroom apartment,

attendance, to a global force that impacts

number seems like an

that served more as a quick-stop rest

millions weekly.

eternity ago, and yet the memories are

area between extended revivals and a

like yesterday. A young couple in love,

miniature office to store boxes of books

from simple to complex, from laid

surviving on a short-term travel itinerary

and cassette tapes. Fast forward to the

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Since 1982, my personal life went

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to a mom, care-giver, and secretary

As my kids get older and I see time

into a beautiful young woman of God.

of a major ministry. At times, female

compressed and age sneaking up on

To watch the ministry grow and see the

Christians will look at me as though

me, this time of making memories is of

impact of the worship, preaching and

I “have it made” being married to a

upmost importance to me.

altar services is an exciting experience.

world-known minister, and that my

MY SECOND ENJOYMENT

Traveling as an evangelist, you see the

life is framed similar to the fantasy character Cinderella, the little poor girl who snagged the prince. My life is not a “fairy” tale but a “faith” tale that requires commitment, hard work and faith to walk out my multiple duties each day. At times, I have been asked what I

My second enjoyment, and this surprises many, is to host a group of close friends in my house and cook for them. Perry has difficulty understanding this and used to say, “Go order food and bring it home so you don’t have to spend time cooking in the kitchen.” However,

souls touched but you depart and head to the next assignment, never getting to watch the converts grow from an infant to a strong believer, from the milk to the meat. Along with this comes the excitement of infants being born to members of the fellowship. I love the infants and the small kids at OCI as I

enjoy the most about what I do. For the

he has learned that my favorite television

sake of your spiritual edification, I will

programs are cooking programs and

not explain a few things that are not that

I like to test what I have learned, and

enjoyable (like cleaning two bird cages

believe me he savors the experience!

and cleaning out the cat litter) but will

When he and the kids get word that I

pots of flowers that I care for. I am a

focus on the thought at hand; what do I

am cooking a home cooked meal, their

lover of plants, especially flowers. I once

enjoy the most?

excitement reminds me of children

told Perry that should I pass before him,

MY FIRST ENJOYMENT

turned loose in a candy store. For me,

he had better tell people to send flowers

preparing food and hosting people is

and surround me with them—that’s how

not a chore or a burden, but is a stress

much I love them. Due to having back

reliever as I can “create” something

surgery at age 19 and a slight challenge

from scratch and then watch our family

with my knee, the pool is where I can

and friends sit down and enjoy it. It is a

exercise without distraction, and at the

challenge to see if I can cook what I have

same time view God’s rainbow of colors

learned.

that surround me.

Those who know me well, know that the one thing I love the most is family time. My biological family was splintered, as my mom and dad divorced when I was young and in my latter teen years I lived with a loving and caring church family. I was connected in a tight bond with my two sisters, Shelia and Carla, until marriage moved me away

MY THIRD ENJOYMENT

really feel like a real, “Momma P.”

MY FOURTH ENJOYMENT In our backyard we have a pool and

After 36 years of marriage and ministry, I have learned that your

Since we have started the OCI

from them in Alabama. Family time

fellowship, we have grown from a

relationship with God, family and

is so important to me, that I plan two

handful to over 600 active members.

friends is what life is about. Without

vacations on the calendar over a year

For nearly seven years I have watched

God life is meaningless, without family

before the time arrives, in order to fit

our youth grow and mature in the

it breeds loneliness and without friends

around Perry’s travel schedule. To me,

Lord, and burn with the fire and zeal

there is emptiness. Love God, love

time with family draws us away from the

of the Holy Spirit. My own daughter

people and build good relationships that

cares of life and ministry, to be together

confessed to being delivered from a

last a long time, and you will be happy

and have face to face time for each other.

three-year bondage and has matured

in life.

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Love and Devotion Multiply with a Big Family Interview by Steve Hartline. Article written by Arleah Waycaster.

f growing up in a large family taught the Goinses anything, it’s that love and closeness only multiply with more family members. The Goinses family currently consists of two parents, David and Rebecca, their five children (which includes a set of triplets), 14 grandchildren (which includes two sets of twins), David’s mother, Pearl Goins, and many, many cousins, aunts and uncles. “It’s never a dull moment with a big family,” said Rebecca Goins, who has worked on the obstetrics floor at Tennova Hospital in Cleveland, Tenn., for 40 years. “But, I feel privileged and blessed.” David Goins was employed at Pioneer Credit for 46 years before he retired. He attended Arnold Memorial Elementary School and Cleveland Junior High School before graduating from Bradley Central High School. After high school, David attended Cleveland State Community College and then joined the National Guard.

“After that, I got a hankering to get into the financial world, so in 1971, I joined Johnny at Pioneer Credit,” he said. Rebecca, also a graduate of Bradley Central High School, attended Waterville School until eighth grade. While in school, she said she was a natural athlete and played several different sports – a trait she would pass on to all of her children. “I played softball and basketball. I made the basketball team for Coach Smitty at Bradley Central, which was hard to do. Then, I changed my mind. I decided I wanted to become a majorette for the last three years of high school,” said Rebecca. David and Rebecca met at Bradley Central and they became high school sweethearts. Their children are: Brittany Goins Mantooth, who is the oldest, Courtney Goins Harris, Piper Goins Hill, and Tanner Goins, who are the triplets, and Cayci Goins, who is the youngest. “It means a lot to me to have a big family,” said Cayci, who teaches physical education at Ocoee Middle School. “We’re close and tight-knit – we do everything together. I’m really blessed.”

From camping, fishing and boating, to going on

In back row, from left, are Tanner Goins, Cayci Goins, Courtney Goins Harris, Brittany Goins Mantooth, and Piper Goins Hill. In front are David Goins, his mother Pearl Goins, and wife Rebecca Goins.

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David and Rebecca have 14 grandchildren. In back row, from left, are Emerson Goins, Brandon Mantooth, Bryant Mantooth, Blake Hanna, Landon Goins and Caitlyn Mantooth. In front row, from left, are Kason Hill, Hadley Goins, Catcher Smith, Kennedy Harris, Knox Hill, Bristol Harris, Jase Hill, and Brooklyn Smith.

vacations together (including an upcoming Disney cruise), the Goinses said they make family time a priority. But most importantly of all, the Goinses said they attend church together. “A lot of people don’t realize that, but we go to the same church. We see each other on a daily basis, and we have cookouts or eat out together nearly every week,” said Brittany, who works as an RN at Tennova Hospital. “Growing up in church was important to us,” said David. “I am a preacher’s grandson. I was saved and baptized at Maple Street Baptist Church when I was 13 years old. I was able to transfer to my kids how important it is to live your life for the Lord.” The Goinses’ faith is also what brought their family to Cleveland. “My father was a Baptist preacher,” said Pearl Goins. “And he moved our family from McMinn County to Cleveland so he could preach at a church.” That firm foundation of belief may even have contributed to the size of the Goinses’ family. Brittany told the story of how her answered prayers as a six-year-old child may have resulted in her mother having triplets: “Mom and Dad told me that Mom was pregnant and going to have a baby, and since I spent a lot of time

at my grandmother’s house and at church, I told my Sunday School teacher and my Nanny Pearl about my mom being pregnant. Nanny Pearl asked me, ‘Are you going to help with the baby? And, is it going be your baby or your mom’s?’” “That got me thinking, so I went from praying for one baby to two babies, and I prayed for twins for weeks. Sure enough, the ultrasonography wasn’t what it is today, so they didn’t pick up another heartbeat until Mom was further along. (My parents) told me that we were going to have two babies. I was excited. Mom was going to have a baby, and I was going to have a baby. But then, I felt like Dad was left out, so I started praying for three. The funny part is that everyone knew that I was praying for three babies – my Sunday School teacher, parents, grandparents, and great-grandparents – but when they actually heard the third heartbeat, NO ONE told me. They were afraid that I’d keep praying for more babies!” After the triplets, David and Rebecca had their fifth child, Cayci, only eight years after the birth of their oldest child, Brittany. “Dad would take care of the triplets at night while Mom worked midnight shifts at the hospital,” said Brittany. “They (continued on pg 78)

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would make 18 bottles and Dad would get up every two to three hours during the night. Then, Mom would come home and do the same thing. There was a lot of feeding and changing. I helped out a lot too – I picked up diaper bags, carried car seats and held a hand. I was like a second mom to them.” One might think that five siblings so close in age would have led to many fights or arguments while growing up, but the Goins said that wasn’t always the case with them.

David and Rebecca will be quick to tell anyone that raising a large family, working full-time jobs and attending all their children’s ball games wasn’t easy, but they seem to have enjoyed their labor of love. “You look back and don’t remember the hard times,” said David. “You just remember the good times and fun and the laughter.” To view the full interview, visit www.mymix1041.com.

“We were so tight growing up,” said Tanner, who has been with the Cleveland Fire Department for 12 years. “There were pros and cons to being the only boy – I didn’t have to wear hand-me-down clothes.” Courtney and Piper agree that they are close to their siblings and parents. “Mom and Dad taught us a lot growing up about working hard. I love my big family!” said Courtney, who is a Family Nurse Practitioner at Bradley Urgent Care, and who also works at Encore Pain Specialists in Cleveland. “I have four boys, and I am raising them with the same values,” said Piper, who is also employed at Encore Pain Specialists as a Nurse Practitioner.

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No big deal.

Right?

Competence and caring qualities... will result in others wanting to follow their lead.

These bossy girls seemed to tell everyone what to do, how to do it and when to do it, with little regard for the person that they were ordering around. Many were ridiculed for their behavior and often lacked having a close social circle. Some would withdraw from classroom activities and stop taking an interest in leadership roles. So, the big deal is that referring to a girl as being “bossy” can not only discourage her from taking on leadership roles for fear of ridicule and shame but can also hinder her growth in the classroom for fear of any backlash. In today’s society, women are expected to be leaders. It is far more common to encourage young girls to refine their leadership skills and make their mark in this world. But how does one do that when your little darling may exhibit a bit of that nasty word: Bossiness? How do we encourage girls to be good quality leaders that others will want to follow?

Whoa! This description certainly does not depict anyone that people would want to follow. Adam Grant, a professor at Wharton School of the University of Pennsylvania, writes that “to make sense of bossiness, we need to tease apart two fundamental aspects of social hierarchy that are often lumped together -- power and status.” He states the power lies in holding a formal position of authority and status involves being respected. We react very differently when power is exercised by high-status and low-status people. Researchers Alison Fragale, Jennifer Overbeck and Maggie Neale show that when people with high status also possess power, we perceive them as dominant but also warm. We hold them in high regard, so we’re willing to follow their commands. When the same commands come from people who lack status, we judge them as dominant and cold. Since they haven’t earned our respect, they don’t have the right to tell us what to do. Grant goes on to say that in order for girls to develop leadership qualities that stick and encourage continued growth and development of positive leadership qualities, it is important to give positive reinforcement for behaviors that earn admiration before they assert their authority. Competence and caring qualities are the components to earning status that will result in others wanting to follow their lead. Being not only competent but also caring will positively affect how others perceive them as someone that they want to follow.

First, it is necessary to understand the term bossy so that we might identify what behavioral changes need to be made. Dictionary.com defines the word bossy as: “To be given to ordering people about; overly authoritative; domineering.” Synonyms included: Domineering, pushy, overbearing, imperious, officious, high-handed, authoritarian, dictatorial and controlling.

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BanBossy.com is an organization that was created by Lean.IN and the Girl Scouts of the USA. Together they founded a public service campaign that encourages leadership and achievement in girls. One of the goals of BanBossy.com is to get rid of the bossy label and to encourage girls to take on more leadership rolls. According to BanBossy.com, by middle school girls are 25 percent less likely than boys to say they like taking the lead. Another statistic stated that 92 percent of girls believe they can learn the skills required to lead— yet only 21 percent believe they already possess them. How do we encourage our girls to believe in themselves and persevere but also exude kindness and empathy? The following is a list of tips from BanBossy.com on how to foster leadership skills in the young girl in your life: 1. Encourage both boys and girls to equally take a leadership role. 2. Be conscious of the ways that you and her communicate. 3. Create an equal household.

4. Teach her to respect her feelings by modeling this behavior. 5. Model assertive behavior. 6. Influence her with purpose. 7. Utilize organized sports and activities. 8. Become media literate together. 9. Allow her to solve her own problems. 10. Encourage her to step out of her comfort zone. My personal tip is to also encourage her to be a good human by modeling compassion, kindness and empathy. As parents and guardians, we are our children’s first teacher. They learn by not only watching how we treat others but also by how we treat and speak to ourselves. So treat yourself kindly and watch your daughter blossom into a strong, caring woman who can do anything that she sets her mind to. Cheers. Erin Cole is a mother to three charismatic boys. She holds a master’s degree in Education and a master’s degree in Mental Health Counseling. Erin teaches kindergarten at Mayfield Elementary in Cleveland, Tenn., where she encourages the uniqueness in each of her students. She also offers counseling at Health Management Services in Cleveland.

There’s a By Stacy Greenwood

omen are constantly being pulled in different directions. We are told to take time for ourselves, but not to be selfish. To be home with our children, but to help provide income. To exercise daily, but not to miss community meetings. To work late, but not to miss our kids’ activities. Many -- myself included -- find that if they are doing something well, then something else is suffering. Balance ... When I step back to think about what I love about boating, the one word that comes to mind is balance. As I listen to my friends, I hear a consistent desire to find a sense of balance in their crazy lives. As women, we are trying to juggle so many roles: Housekeeper, Dedicated Employee, Mother, Devoted Significant Other, Caretaker, Community Supporter, Active Church Member, Healthy Eater, Athlete … the list goes on and on. For me, boating is one activity that can address many roles at once. There are very few things in life that can provide so many positives and meet the needs of so many generations. For instance, imagine a Sunday afternoon where you could exercise, be with your family and/or friends (whether they are 8 months old or 80 years old), rest, and be in nature all at the same time. There are very few activities where so many things can happen at once.

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TOYOTA OF CLEVELAND PRESENTS

WINTER HAPPENINGS New Year’s Eve Late Skate

A kid-friendly night of skating with a balloon drop at midnight, prizes and giveaways! Time: 7 p.m. - 1 a.m. Location: Cleveland Skate Place, Cleveland, Tenn. www.clevelandskateplace.com

Princess Tea Party

Hear Ye, Hear Ye!!! The Knights and Princesses of the land are invited to a Royal Tea Party. Lunch, treats, sweets and activities are planned by Princesses for the day. Your Knights and Princesses can dress in their fanciest costumes for an enchanted afternoon. Call 423-238-9333 for reservations. Time: 10:45 a.m. and 1:15 p.m. Location: Mountain Oaks Tea Room, Ooltewah, Tenn. Admission: $22.95 www.mountainoaksweddingchapel.com/ special-events/

The World Famous Glenn Miller Orchestra

Valentine’s Couples Retreat

Celebrate the month of love with a Valentine’s Edition Couples Retreat! Enjoy a day full of activities that will enhance your marriage or long-term relationship in a variety of ways, including: Couples yoga night class, couples massage class, and a couples dance class. Time: 6:30 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. (Friday night) and 11:00 a.m. - 8:00 p.m. (Saturday) Location: CrossFit Anistemi, Cleveland, Tenn. www.thecouplesretreat.wixsite.com

Shamrock City

Visit Rock City’s 12th annual Irish celebration and festival – Shamrock City! This event includes live Irish music, Irish jig lessons, Irish food, speciality beer, dance performances, costumed characters, and fun for the whole family! You can even see the High Falls flowing green! Time: 8:30 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Location: Rock City, Lookout Mountain, Ga. www.seerockcity. com/events/entry/ shamrock-city

The World Famous Glenn Miller Orchestra is coming back to Cleveland for one night only. The ticket price includes not only a filet dinner at the Cleveland Country Club but an additional 45 minutes of ballroom dance instruction by the legendary ballroom dancers Jack and Ollie Hall, then live entertainment from the GMO. Time: 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Location: Cleveland Country Club, Cleveland, Tenn. www.clevelandchamber.com

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Bradley County Master Gardener’s Spring Garden Festival

An event to celebrate gardeners and gardening in Tennessee to help grow a better community, featuring: Market place with related vendors and exhibitors; education zone featuring garden-related seminars and workshops, Kinder Garden for kids age 4-7, food vendors, door prizes, and more! Time: 10:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Location: Museum Center at 5ive Points, Cleveland, Tenn. www.bradleycountymastergardeners.org

Women United’s “An Evening Under the Big Top”

Women United is a group within the United Way that services the community by promoting the needs of women and children. This fundraising event will feature a cocktail hour and a plated dinner, followed by the “Auction of Promises.” Time: 6:00 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Location: The Museum Center at 5ive Points, Cleveland, Tenn. Admission: To reserve a table, contact: Ashlan Morelock at ashlanmorelock@ unitedwayocoee.org or 423-716-5725.

Chair-ries Jubilee 2019

Food, beverages, silent and live auction, presented by the Allied Arts Council of the Chamber of Commerce. These monies provide funding for teachers to receive grants for art programs they wish to bring to their classrooms, and for visiting artists to appear in area schools and arts in our community. Time: 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Location: The Museum Center at 5ive Points, Cleveland, Tenn. www.clevelandchamber.com/chamber/ alliedartscouncil/

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BaCon Festival

Cleveland’s 2nd annual BaCon Festival is for the whole family, featuring our area’s most delicious food focusing on bacon-related dishes, local crafting vendors and talented entertainment. Time: 10:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Location: Tri-State Exhibition Center, McDonald, Tenn. Admission: $5. Kids 3 and under free. www.clevelandbaconfestival.com

Big Truck Round-Up

We’re rounding up the Big Trucks! Bring the kids and come explore construction equipment, emergency vehicles, two trucks and many more. There will be food to purchase and hands-on activities for kids. Time: 11:00 a.m. - 1:00 p.m. Location: Westwood Baptist Church, Cleveland, Tenn. Admission: Free admission. Food for purchase. www.familycornerstones.org

Cleveland Half Marathon & 5K

Presented by Terra Running Company, this event takes participants through 13.1 miles of downtown Cleveland, including the business district, Lee University, the Cleveland Greenway, and the historic district. Time: 7:00 a.m. (5K) and 7:10 a.m. (Half Marathon) Location: Downtown, Cleveland, Tenn. Admission: See website for registration fee. www.clevelandhalf.com

The Mix 104.1 Great Cleveland Duck Race

Presented by Don Ledford, an event where everyone has the opportunity to sign up and get a rubber duck from Don Ledford Cleveland and race them down Mouse Creek. One lucky winner will receive a grand prize. There are also vendors, bands, and activities. Location: Mouse Creek at the Greenway Pavilion and Park, Cleveland, Tenn. www.mymix1041.com

The Mix 104.1 Family Expo

There will be vendors from across the area along with games and activities for the kids and prizes for adults! Location: Cleveland YMCA www.mymix1041.com

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